January 24, 2014 The Passion is there

I spent part of the day attending a networking meeting in Los Angeles.  As I was listening to the presentations, mingling with other therapists and turning on the charm,  I couldn't help but think about a few things as I went for my third cup of coffee.   Few words were thrown around and two popped into my head as I was pouring my creamer into the coffee.  Being present and passionate.    As therapists, we always want to be present.  It is essential to part of what makes the therapeutic relationship grow and blossom.   Passion is another word.  One person asked me what is it that drives me; lights that fire under my pant.  I first mentioned my Fender Jazz Bass Guitar.   However, when he was reaching for a more serious answer I told him  " my clients."  He looked at me with a "watcha talking about " look on his face.  I told him one particular story of  how one home visit reminded me of my passion. Years ago,  I used to visit my clients at their home and provide therapeutic services.  One in particular, a 91 year old man, was having difficulty with  life transition  issues and depression.  As we worked together to deal with these issues, we indeed formed a close bond and I was always looking forward to seeing him.   During one visit as I walked into his apartment,   he greeted me with a smile and began to cry.  When I asked him why he was crying, he told me he had finally found his purpose and was glad that he was "91 years older but a much wiser and compassionate man ".  I seconded that fact and told him that I was extremely happy that he had made this particular turn.  When  I left his apartment,  I actually began to tear up.  I felt elated not only because my client was doing better but after 13 years,  I still felt the innate fuel and passion with seeing the dynamic changes that my clients underwent.  Being able to be  passionate about something you do is something we strive to attain but in my case it is my work and indeed I love it.